Return to Self
Work With Me

Real work,
on the part of you that is still
living in survival mode.

One-to-one transformational coaching for ME/CFS, chronic fatigue, long COVID, PPPD, persistent dizziness, anxiety, and depression - working at the deeper layer of the nervous system.

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The Promise

Transformation, return,
and lasting health are possible.

I want to say this clearly, because too few people in this space say it without hedging: full transformation is real. I have lived it. I have walked it with others. The conditions you are living with - chronic fatigue, persistent dizziness, anxiety, depression, the cluster of symptoms that has not responded to surface-level treatment - are not a life sentence.

They are signals from a system that has been carrying something for a long time. When the carrying is named, when the patterns underneath are seen and unwound, the system softens. The symptoms quiet. A different life becomes possible. Not in the sense of going back to who you were before - in the sense of arriving, often for the first time, at who you actually are.

This work is not a guarantee. It is a real path. I will walk it with you if you choose to come.

Who This Is For

You are ready for this work if…

This is you

  • You have been living with chronic symptoms for at least six months. Likely longer.
  • You have done the medical investigation. Imaging, bloodwork, specialist referrals. Whatever the protocol has been for your condition.
  • You have tried multiple approaches - somatic work, nervous system regulation, brain retraining, therapy, supplements. Some of it has helped. None of it has returned you fully.
  • You sense, somewhere in you, that what is happening in your body is connected to something deeper. You are not sure what. You are willing to look.
  • You are willing to be honest with yourself about your life, your relationships, your patterns - not in a self-blaming way, in a clear-eyed way.

This is not yet for you if…

  • You have not yet completed appropriate medical investigation for your symptoms. This work assumes structural causes have been ruled out by a physician. If you have not been there yet, that is the right first step.
  • You have a mental health condition that has not been assessed by a GP or mental health professional. This work is complementary to professional mental health care, not a substitute for it.
  • You are looking for someone to fix you in six weeks while you continue everything else exactly as it has been. The work asks something of you.
  • You are in acute crisis - active suicidality, severe psychiatric instability, recent major trauma still in its acute phase. This work is for the chronic phase, not the acute one. If you are in crisis, please reach out to a crisis service first.
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Free 30-minute
Discovery Call

A real conversation. We talk about what you have been living with, what you have tried, where you are now, and what you are hoping for. I share how I see your situation through the framework, and whether I think this work would help.

There is no sales pressure. If it is not a fit, I will tell you, and where appropriate I will point you toward what might serve better.

  • 30 minutes, by Zoom
  • Free, no obligation
  • Available to clients globally
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If you are ready

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Transformation Coaching

For those who have resonated with my work and are ready to explore hidden survival patterns that may be leading to chronic health conditions, nervous system dysregulation and chronic stress. See more details below.

A small note: if you have not had a discovery call with me yet, I recommend starting there. It helps both of us know it is a fit before you commit to six weeks.

  • 6 x 90-minute sessions over six weeks
  • Tools for transformation
  • USD $1,170, payment plans available
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Live webinar + Q&A

The Return to Self
Group Membership

Weekly group access to the work without the intensity of 1:1 coaching. One live teaching webinar each week, one live Q&A each week, and a growing library of recorded sessions, resources, and supporting material.

The Membership is being designed to open in the coming months. Register your interest now.

  • Weekly live webinar + Q&A
  • USD $70 / month, month-to-month
  • Growing recorded library
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1:1 Transformation Coaching

Six weeks of focused work.

Six weeks of focused work together at the level of identity - not symptom management, not nervous system regulation alone, but the slow unwinding of the shame-based beliefs and hidden survival patterns that have kept the body in alarm for years. The same framework I use with all clients, tailored specifically to where you actually are.

What is included

  • 6 x 90-minute sessions, one per week, delivered over Zoom. Recorded if you would like, so you can return to them.
  • Text and voice support throughout. Between sessions, you can message me with what is arising. I respond within twenty-four hours, usually faster.
  • A safe space to be witnessed. This work cannot be done alone. The deepest patterns only come into the light when held by someone trained to recognise them and skilled at reflecting them back.
  • Tailored homework and practices between sessions. Specific to your patterns, not generic worksheets.
  • The tools for transformation. A specific practice for each stage of the work - the questions to ask, the exercises to do, the practical how of moving through each inner movement. We work through them together, applied to your life.
  • A clear arc. Five inner movements structure the six sessions. We move through Awareness, Acceptance, Allowing, Authentic Expression, and Alignment together - at your pace, without rushing.
Investment
USD $1,170 Six sessions over six weeks approx. AUD $1,765 · GBP £925 · EUR €1,005
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Payment plans available on request - two payments of $585 over the first two weeks. Mention this on your discovery call or email hello@returntotrueself.co.

Why One-to-One

The work happens in the specifics
of your life - not in the average.

The market for chronic illness work is full of mass cohort programs - eight-week courses, twelve-week pre-recorded curricula, large group containers running the same modules for hundreds of people simultaneously. Some of them help. For some people, in early stages, they are a useful introduction.

But here is what they cannot do, by design. They cannot respond to the specific belief running underneath your fatigue. They cannot notice the particular way you fawn that nobody has named for you yet. They cannot adjust the pace this week because the work last week opened something that needs another seven days to settle. They cannot tell when the issue you are presenting is actually a layer over the real one. They cannot do what a single attentive practitioner in real time can do for you.

Working together, I gently reflect back to you what is hidden and unseen - what has been operating at the deeper layer of the nervous system, unconsciously affecting your health.

Common Questions

Questions people ask before booking.

Is six weeks really enough?

For some people, the 1:1 Transformation Coaching is the entirety of the work they need - they leave with the framework, the awareness, and the practices, and continue the unwinding on their own. For others, six weeks is the foundational arc and they choose to continue with further work afterwards. Both are valid. The 1:1 coaching is designed to be genuinely sufficient as a starting point, and to deliver real transformation in those six weeks.

What if I do not see results?

I cannot guarantee specific outcomes - no honest practitioner can. What I can guarantee is that I will show up with full presence and the framework that has helped me and others. If after the first two sessions you feel the work is not for you, I will refund the remaining four sessions, no questions.

Do I need to have read the guide first?

No. The guide is available if you want background reading, but the sessions do not depend on it. We work with what is alive in you that week. The framework is a structure I bring to the work - you do not need to have studied it.

Can I work with you alongside my therapist or other practitioners?

Yes, in most cases. This work is complementary to mental health support and to nervous system practitioners. I encourage you to keep your existing care in place. If there is a specific dynamic where coordination would be helpful, we can talk about that on the discovery call.

What time zones do you work in?

I am based in Melbourne, Australia (AEST/AEDT). I have clients in the US, UK, Canada, and New Zealand. I keep my schedule flexible to accommodate global time zones, with morning slots for Asia-Pacific and evening slots for North America and Europe.

What is your refund policy?

If after the first two sessions the 1:1 coaching is not serving you, I refund the remaining four sessions. After the second session, refunds are not available - by then we are inside the work and the unwinding is happening.